We are a member of the Online Dating Association (ODA).
He’s now miserable because he didn’t contemplate a vast number of things — how they work as roommates, how often they want sex, how they’d raise a baby, and on and on and on.
In a marriage, there are hundreds of things to fight about and they seem to be covering most of them. Because they thought that a “feeling” had anything to do with managing a marriage.
The way he behaves around me, toward me, is no different, except that it’s in a romantic context. He is the most attentive and caring person I’ve ever known.
He’s told his friends and family about me, they liked me immensely when we met, and he’s made it perfectly clear that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Have you ever heard the phrase “if it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is?