Texts for chat grannies
For the record, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with statements like “Yeah, I like that,” “You look so hot right now,” and “I love having sex with you.” But they can be supercharged in a massive way if you shift them each with a bit of descriptive detail.
“Yeah, I like that” becomes “Oh my god, keep doing that.
This is especially crucial if your partner is a woman.
Women, in particular, are often aroused through the imagination.
I fucking love you and your perfect/delicious/sexy big/little (body part).” “I love having sex with you” transforms into “I love it when you grab the sheets when you’re about to come.
I love how your breath pauses when I put my mouth on your (insert partner’s preferred name for their genitals here).
For a lot of people, it’s the details of dirty talk that make it so much of a turn on.
In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly freezes up like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper thrown out of an igloo in Antartica.
Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism.
What you say will be based on what you authentically desire in the moment, or what’s turning you on, but it could be something along the lines of.
A comment like that will probably push them over the edge and have them pouncing on you.