Teen dating with aspergers

I learnt the hard way what Asperger Syndrome was.” Asperger´s Syndrome (AS) is one of the autism spectrum disorders.Affected individuals display considerably impaired capacity for social interaction and communication.People involved in relationships with a mindblind partner report feeling invalidated, unsupported, unheard, unknown and uncared for.They suffer from severe, ongoing emotional deprivation that results in depression, loneliness, anger, low self-esteem, emotional breakdown, PTSD and physical illness.He may have a good job, often as an engineer or in an IT-related field, such as computer programming.Although the deficits of a man with AS become painfully clear in time, they often present as normal in the beginning of a relationship.”alking with my ex-husband is like smashing my head against a wall or drowning in a river.

o not minimize the extent of my having been changed from a vivacious, sensual, happy, loving, athletic, healthy, wealthy, bright, articulate, fairly socially adept human to being melded and molded to accommodate an autistic adult into exactly the opposite of who I am for the sake of a one-sided relationship.” Initially, a woman may admire the man’s intelligence, knowledge, good manners, old-fashioned sensibilities, unconventional charm, child-like qualities, and his practical, rational way of looking at the world.

The result is a person who is “mindblind,” which means blindness to another person’s needs, feelings and desires.

This adversely affects the important quality of empathy, which is vital to a successful and fulfilling relationship.

And it’s all making me sick.” As individuals with AS age, most develop a wide variety of coping skills and discover ways to mask their behavioral traits so that under many circumstances they can “pass for normal.” You must be very astute to pick up on clues of AS in the beginning of a relationship. Find a healthy and well functioning partner or live with a dog.

Men with AS need—and often have been given—explicit instructions to ask you how your day was, to send you flowers, to send flirty or loving text messages every morning, to hold your hand when you walk down the street, to avoid giving monologues on their “special interest,” etc. Life will be far more rewarding.” dated someone who had Asperger’s syndrome and it led to me having a breakdown and suffering from severe depression.

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