Speed dating vancouver over 50
Never was that more evident than on Ashley’s first-ever Vancouver date.
“I was down at Kits Beach minutes after signing my lease, and this guy walked past me three times with his dog and finally stopped and asked me out.
He didn’t look like an axe murderer, so I said yes.
And by the way, I actually like that kind of forward behaviour,” Ashley noted.
Needless to say, adults over 50 have hopped onto the speed-dating bandwagon and have come out victorious.
First and foremost, speed dating eliminates pressure – pressure of giving out your phone number even when you don’t want to, pressure of avoiding awkward pauses in conversation, pressure of telling your life story to a stranger you just met.
In all that time, on all those dates, not one guy has stuck long term. I just find that in Vancouver there are very few middle-of-the-road, average, normal guys out there, which is all I’m looking for,” Ashley told me. They’re either proposing marriage for like, next Saturday, or painfully shy and socially awkward and walking out on me, or they look nothing like their photo.” Ashley feels that Vancouver’s fitness-first culture has a negative impact on the dating scene. To be clear, I’m not sleeping with all these men and I’m not desperate.
Most speed-dating events specify a certain cultural background, religion, or age group as a requirement to participate.
Among the over-50 population, this style of dating is especially common.
Each pair sits down and gets to know one another, or “date”.
When time is up, the coordinator will ring a bell, blow a whistle, or clink a glass, at which point the participants switch seats to meet the next person.