Dating mistakes even smart women make
If anything, you should feel Don’t be one of those girls who forgets her friends and her interests as soon as she has a man, it never ends well and makes you look needy.QUIZ: Are you Accidentally Destroying Your Relationship?Generally speaking, all men are attracted to a level of vulnerability in women. But if you look a little closer, you’ll start to notice the men just to the side of the dominant story-tellers. So keep an eye on your cycle and choose to spend ovulation time having a quite cocktail or coffee with a girlfriend, rather than hunting men. If you are an Alpha Female and you’d like to experiment with Beta Males, start with your imagination.They may be laughing along, sharing the joke, but not necessarily holding court. Spend 10 minutes each night visualising yourself in a happy relationship with a man who supports you, doesn’t compete with you and allows you to be YOU.Instead, they prefer to pull back and work things out internally.It really is a shame to see how many women think it’s okay to stop working out and shaving their legs as soon as they’re in a relationship.A Beta Male is more likely to take the supportive role with a woman, to allow her to lead, to shine, and to be herself in all her glory.
So what if an Alpha Female connected with a Beta Male?Start by creating some space in your diary and some flexibility around your schedule. Vulnerability is not a common trait for many Alpha Females.Imagine placing a sign on your forehead that says ‘available’. They often prefer to keep any perceived ‘flaws’ or ‘weaknesses’ to themselves and sometimes find signs of vulnerability in others quite unattractive. When you enter a room it’s not hard to spot the Alphas – they are the men with the loudest voice, the most intense eye contact, the boldest dress style and often, the strongest scent (a throw-back to our animal ancestors). Scientists have found that women are most likely to be attracted to males with high testosterone levels (i.e. When you think about it, it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, ovulation is the time when women’s brains and bodies are preparing to conceive. In order to change your behaviour, start with your mindset.MORE: On Loving Yourself and Being More Confident If he’s in a bad mood or doesn’t feel like talking, leave him alone and let it be.Most guys don’t like to talk about their issues the way women do.