Dating girls on the rebound

It's a question I'm often asked, and the answer really depends on two factors: How good the rebound relationship is; and how attached the person is to their ex.

Rebound relationships can often help people stop missing their exes.

Aside from a few months of dating, even if it’s new and you’re just heading into this relationship, if your guy doesn’t introduce you as his “girlfriend”, you could be rebound.

For example, introductions such as “this is my friend….” or “this is…..” or no introduction at all are all rebound red flags. If you don’t think your man is over his ex, if you don’t think he’s treating you the way a man should treat his girlfriend, then he’s probably not.

Sometimes the sign is pretty obvious, like when he calls out his ex’s name during sex (believe me, this is not a fun way to spend the night).If your man works odd hours or sixty hours a week, it could just be work…not rebound.After three months you should have met at least some of his friends and family.Finally, one of the biggest and most obvious signs that you’re the rebound girl is that the relationship just doesn’t feel right. Only you know your relationship, and that means you know when something isn’t quite right. Let this guy go and move on to someone that does care about you.After all, you don’t want to be the third wheel to the memory of his ex, do you?

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