Dating as a single mother
Sure you can exchange a few messages over a dating app, but always speak to a potential date on the phone first.You don’t want to waste your time and money going on a date if there’s no connection whatsoever.Even with that encouragement, the early stages can present such hurdles like quality time and giving your budding relationship the level of attention it warrants.Dating a single mom forces you to learn and practice a deeper level of understanding and compassion.
Dating a single mom and ultimately creating a blended family is extremely challenging too.
You can only hope that the environment remains cordial.
If it doesn’t, the unfortunate pitfall is that you’ve developed a bond with a child that may find out one day his/her father held negative opinions about you. No matter how good your intentions are, it could leave a damaging effect on them as adults knowing that their other parent never accepted you.
There were stretches of time when he wasn’t around; either by his own volition or my mother protecting us from his disappointments. Having such an inconsistent father was my first example of what kind of father not to be.
The same rang true in my friends’ households and even strangers in the neighborhood. Over time, I have shaped my own ideas about fatherhood and how I want to parent my children.