Christian dating advice breakup

Amy lives in California where she works as a marketing assistant for a community college district and blogs about her spiritual life.She enjoys playing tennis, experimenting with HTML, and discussing marriage and relationships.My sister-in-law told me to pray for peace and God would give it to me, and it took me about two weeks to recover from the sting of heartbreak.After spending a lot of time with God in prayer, I started to feel like the person I was before I met my boyfriend.Toward the end of last year, I felt God tugging at my heart to increase the amount of time I spent with Him.Around the same time, I felt like I needed space from my boyfriend and started strengthening friendships I had let slowly slip away.

Maybe there’s somewhere you’re supposed to go or something you’re supposed to do.” That concept helped me process the situation by shedding new light on it. I haven’t moved since the breakup, and I haven’t accomplished any concrete task that dating would have kept me from doing. I realized I’d let dating distract me from God’s purpose for me.

I’d spent so much time focusing on the relationship and not enough time focusing on God.

After the breakup, I refocused on God, and in the process, I rediscovered myself.

Most 20-to-30-somethings have been in multiple dating relationships. Maybe after time, the two of you just realized it wasn’t meant to be.

Or perhaps some of those relationships were sinful and ended because God wasn’t in it.

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